Going straight forward...antlers 5th thread.

[K4D]

She doesn't value me anymore because of the way I used to be. The fact that I'm not that way anymore is irrelevant to her. I just gotta choke it down, and accept that it's that way.

You have to accept that it is that way right now. You don't have to accept that it will stay that way forever. Take your eyes off your current circumstances and keep focusing on you. And I asure you that it is relevant to her. I asure you she is noticing. But she is not going to show you right now. She may be waiting to see if it is long lasting or not. You don't know what is going on in her mind. Our W's are experts at keeping their thoughts secret from us.

Remember, this is a long road traveled for most.

Keep up the focus on changing you. Let the rest work itself out with time. I think you might be surpised if you can keep being patient.

Kevin