So..., stbxH has been quiet and me too. This morning he calls and I ignored his calls and then sends me a message saying :I am in ER with major pains.
So I call back and he cant speak. His father is there and tells me he is in very bad state, in big pain, cant talk and they are taking him for cat scans etc but they think it is kidney stones(?)
So I go to the hospital and get there in a couple of hours and he is asleep. FiL says they dont know yet what it is, they had ruled out heart and still think it is a stone but cant see it. They had given him shots (3!!!) for the pain and to calm him down.
His phone rings and he wakes up and when he sees me, he extends his arm (the one had IV) and signals to go to him. I go, and he huggs me tight and starts kissing me(not on the lips, the hands, the arms,my chest, anywhere he can reach). His dad is speechless and leaves the room. He wont let leave his bed and I politely push him away and go to a chair across the room.
We talk and chat and he has tests and they finally see a big stone which they told him may be from bad eating habbits (and looks at me sad when he tells me, my cooking was always FOR me, LOL).
I stay there until he left the hospital and he asks for me, 2 or 3 times to go beside him and starts kissing me again, squeezing me, my legs, my arms... The one time he started kissing me on my lips and I make it clear NOT to go there. It was very intense. The docs come in and he keeps saying "my wife, my wife will come with me, tell my wife etc etc".
When we leave, his sister takes him to the house, I tell him if he needs anything to call and asks where am I heading. I told him to my house and he seemed sad.
I get home and 1 hour later he calls and says he wants to come over to see the kids since he is not working. He does come and reads to the kids, we put them to bed and then ...we TALK!! ABout the elections, our friends, the pain he felt, the kids. Normal, easy stuff. He linegered but I didnt offer him to stay and he said he should leave. I said "fine, get well soon" and show him to the door. He hugs me and starts kissing me again (NOT to the lips this time).
He was surprised I showed up (especially since I took my time) and our hugs and kisses felt genuine. He came by because he felt this is where he should be and to be honest, seeing him so weak and exhausted, I thought the same thing... K
Last edited by Kalni; 10/07/0908:37 PM. Reason: spelling
