Don't waste any more time hurting your "now" or your chances for a future, by endless questions that have no answers...I think it's one of the most frequent reasons why some M's don't end up reconciling. The LBS can't let go of something they don't "get"...and they need to let go of it.
I agree with this. In the end, it doesn't matter why or how could they. What matters is that they are back and ready to move forward with you if you can get to that point.
I'm starting to "get" this stuff to.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
