Going to C and doing the homework. Not letting what is going on in my W's life affect me now and keep me down. Focusing on work, kids, and my home. Dressing myself to bring back some sex appeal. Making myself more confident. Thinking positively instead of negatively. Spending some time alone to figure out I can be productive and happy doing things on my own. Getting my hair cut tonight. I might go hang out with friends and I might not tonight. I haven't decided. There isn't a necessity to do it. Keeping myself up better. Trying to look at myself as it is W's loss. Realizing I am worth something. Not sitting around being unproductive and depressed. My responses to W are pretty much one or two words now when she texts me. My focus is really coming into play now on myself and my work and my kids. I am looking at what I can do to enjoy myself if things don't go as planned with different things.
Just some things I am doing differently now.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...