R2C - Thanks for spelling it out so clearly in black and white. Sometimes I get lost in translation and need a splash of water to the face so to speak to get a clear course of direction and proceed down the path of what it is that I truly want. A true set of goals to measure accomplishments and progress by.
YES - I do want H still. I am still very afraid of what if I do get H back, what will change or be different as far as our core issues were, still are? But I suppose that is par for the course and I will have to cross one bridge at a time in all this.
YES - I want to have fun in this process!
Therefore, I will commence following the next three steps that you outlined. Hope you will pop in to check up on my endeavors!
Me-34 XH-33 No Kids We were M-12Y T-15Y 5/09 Same house-separate bedrooms 01/10 I filed for D / H moved out 09/16/10 Divorced
