I agree. Keep the appointment. It's important for you to be consistent and do what you said. It's will help reenforce your boundaries.

I apologize if I come off harsh. I'm definitely bias having a narcissist for an ex wife. Even to this day it's all about her and her schedule.

The best thing you can do is set your boundaries and stick to them. You, like me, was an enabler for too long.

Hold the line. PMA