That's what a guilty person says. Of course the spouse is angry that the secret came out. My wife was angry at me too and said similar things. That angry subsides...she has mentioned in the 3 years we have been back together that her trust was violated. The one that should have trust issues is the one cheated on, knew it in their heart, and had to snoop because there is no way the cheating spouse would be honest about it.
You cannot be lonely if you like the person you're alone with. Dr. Wayne Dyer
