Pearl,

I printed out your last post and put it in my wallet as a reminder of how to handle this. Great advise as usual.

Me45 (D11 from 1st marriage)
W43 (D20 & D16 from 1st marriage)
M4
Bomb 6/16/09 W wants D
W moved out 8/29/09
I sent her D paperwork 9/25/09...I'm done