personally IF my spouse is cheating and lieing to my face in the process, the last thing I am worried about is how he / she responds to my snooping.
It backfired for me. My W was more livid at me and threatened to press charges against me for invasion of privacy even though I hadn't broken any laws by discovering it on a computer in the living room of our house. None the less she said I could not be trusted and held it against me. Ironic I know. But it did not improve my situation. Now I did contact OM after and that pretty much ended the A. But things are not coming together between me and my W.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
