I just wanted to pop in and say you can do this. I know how totally desperate and hurt you are. My H walked away almost a year ago. I know what it feels like to be totally lost and heartbroken. But, you have the strength to fight this. There is hope. Sometimes I feel the same way...totally hopeless and depressed. But I believe that marriages are worth fighting for - even when it seems pointless.

I'm not very good at offering advice as to what you should do, but I hope it helps to know that others (including me) know the pain you are feeling. And it is hard, but do your best to take care of yourself and don't allow the sadness to eat away at you -instead, do some things that make you happy even if you don't feel like it.


Me: 34
H: 34
DD: 3
M: 8 yrs
H moved out Oct. 2008, "not happy" "don't know what I want" "will always love you, but not in love with you"
PA Bomb: April 5, 2010