My W berated someone else for cheating also during her own time of cheating. Imagine the irony there to. It makes you not suspect them if they go after someone else for doing it.

Kevin

Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...