Wife says she wants me to move on

[K4D]

I guess I could start spying/snooping more to find out.

You need to ask yourself a few things before you take this route.

Are you ready and can you handle it if there is someone else involved. Are you ready to handle what you may find out if you go snooping? What do you hope to accomplish by snooping? How will it benefit your situation? Will it destroy you if you discover intimate things that you did not know? Will you replay those in your mind and fume and let it bring you down?

I ask these things because I did the snooping and it was the absolute worst thing I ever did. I read things that I wish I would never have read. I played them over and over in my mind. I let it control me and almost destroy me. I like you also thought I could never see my W doing that. That is not her. I would have bet a million dollars on it and I would have lost.

The true saying on here and it really is absolutely true is believe nothing you hear and only 50% of what you see. I cannot tell you how much that has been true for most everyone on here including myself.

Also remember, if you do discover OM, how do you think you W will respond to knowing that you were snooping? Will she take kindly to it? Probably not. Will she assume you have broken her trust as ridiculous as that is? Probably so.

If you decide to embark on that journey, just make sure you are FULLY prepared for what you may discover. Most people aren't. I wasn't.

K4D