That's what I was thinking. I won't beg with H, plead, whatever. I don't care. And it will just make him mad if I push. Absolutely no pressure on him- I'll just go and make it an individual session with the MC if he doesn't want to go. He can have a session by himself another time if he wants. I just don't want to be yanked around again- it's not fair. If he doesn't want to try, he can just f***ng say so!
