She is not seeing OM, but im not sure about an EA. Since EAs can exist just in the mind of the S, I cant be sure about this. Its almost as if she is having an EA with herself, since she talks about never wanting to get married again and being a single mom.
Word to the wise, my now XW, even when OM was clearly known, said the same, doesn't want to rely on anyone, wants to live life for herself, independent of men.
Well, not even a week later, she moved in with OM, they've since acquired a 'home' and were engaged long before our D was even in progress (legally anyways).
My 'favorite' phrase XW coined: "it's not like that".
So, just be leary.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11
