Wife says she wants me to move on

[brknheart]

DR is a good thing to read, whether she wants to work on things or not. It's about working on you.

As far as too much R talk... I'll highlight the parts that make me think that:

If there's one thing that's not going to help right now, it's talking to her about your situation. Back way off on that.

As you said, you have some time. I would say back off, spend less time with her, read DR, and start working on yourself. A lot of it is counterintuitive, but doing what's intuitive hasn't been working, right?

Thanks for the reply. Thats what I was doing the first month, backing off, not seeing her, being away from the house when she wanted to come to the house, etc. It seemed like things between us got worse. Like I said, before she moved out she didnt want a divorce, now she insist on one. So I should go back to ignoring her? She made a comment last week that I was keeping her in the dark since the separation started. So I should cancel our movie date for tomorrow night?