I for one have been following and I have to agree with rob and Puppy.
It is OK by the way, I have been in that same needy state as well, then my wife, luckily came to me and said stop trying to fix me, I have to fix myself. This was after I wrote her a note that was a light hearted, funny note that just said that I was thinking about her. That is when it really hit that my note was not a message from me caring about her, it was a note for her to hurry up and change and she called me on it. It was then I finally got it, and I thank God she communicated it with me.
