Ummmmm, just a random thought here.

In my sitch, my X had her brother and "our" renter to report back to her with information to use against me to it's fullest degree.

I'm deeply disturbed by your stbx's recent confidence boost here. Karen, you aren't openly posting anything on say FB or anything about all this?

Me 35/XW 33
S13 & S12
M: 10/17/98
OM & S: 07/08
D final 06/09/09
12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing"
06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10
06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11