When I initially confronted W about her EA after finding the email exchange, I said the same things you did. I know what's going on, be honest, etc. She still lied. Then she stuck by her lie at MC...even expanded on it by saying she sent a NC email.
It might be time for boundary #2. I'd rather see one of us file for D TODAY than have her sneaking around behind my back with OM. I'm not going to do anything today. I need to wait until the anger goes away & I'm thinking more clearly.
Called a L today & I'm expecting a callback tomorrow. Time to get those legal ducks in a row.
Me-39 W-31 S-4 Bomb- 9/5/09 Discovered EA- 9/15/09 Found "proof" that EA is most likely a PA- 10/8/09 W moved out 10/31/09