When I initially confronted W about her EA after finding the email exchange, I said the same things you did. I know what's going on, be honest, etc.
She still lied. Then she stuck by her lie at MC...even expanded on it by saying she sent a NC email.

It might be time for boundary #2. I'd rather see one of us file for D TODAY than have her sneaking around behind my back with OM.
I'm not going to do anything today. I need to wait until the anger goes away & I'm thinking more clearly.

Called a L today & I'm expecting a callback tomorrow. Time to get those legal ducks in a row.


Me-39
W-31
S-4
Bomb- 9/5/09
Discovered EA- 9/15/09
Found "proof" that EA is most likely a PA- 10/8/09
W moved out 10/31/09