Originally Posted By: ClingingToHope
I don't know how to answer that. I don't want to spend $14K on a divorce. I also don't like paying the 28 percent since she also wants me to pay half of daycare, medical costs and summer camps even though she makes more.


If you pay the 28%, that covers your responsibility for all those expenses.

Originally Posted By: ClingingToHope
I downloaded a free no fault divorce settlement to send to her. I guess I'll consult an attorney before sending it.


Definitely do that. It's unlikely you'll reach a fair, equitable agreement yourselves.


Me45 (D11 from 1st marriage)
W43 (D20 & D16 from 1st marriage)
M4
Bomb 6/16/09 W wants D
W moved out 8/29/09
I sent her D paperwork 9/25/09...I'm done