Wife says she wants me to move on

[brknheart]

I updated my sig, married for 9 years. She is not seeing OM, but im not sure about an EA. Since EAs can exist just in the mind of the S, I cant be sure about this. Its almost as if she is having an EA with herself, since she talks about never wanting to get married again and being a single mom. The reason she wants to give up is she said that she has never been happy, that I took to long to work on my anger problem (started seeing a counselor this year, my anger is only verbal), and that marriage hasnt worked for her. She also said I didnt give her what she needed and she feels unwanted/ignored. The past year of our marriage has been tough, mainly because I was laid off work and became depress and also the fact that we didnt spend much time together because of her schooling. From the beginning, I asked her just for one more chance, that this time was different, we have never been separated before. Ive realized things I took for granted and we agree that both of us played a part in this. What happen last week with us messed with my head, sort of like opening a wound again that ive been trying to heal since she moved out. I felt close to her but I guess she just wanted sex. She was the wife I fell in love with, kind, big smile, funny. Now she went back to the resentful, angry, end all woman that I do not know.