Hi Kevin thanks for the advice. I have been detaching by doing things lately. I'm very busy with the kids and I started fall house cleaning cause I didn't do it in the spring because of being so depressed. I figured it needs to get done and I'm not going to have this house like this because of my H bringing me down.
I don't know how to react to things like when he forwards a text though. He forwards this joke and I respond and then he says he didn't mean to send it to me. Sounds like control to me but I don't know. Any help there? Jody told me to go dark but not too dark do to the fact he suffers from depression. So now I'm really confused.
And will start working on the detachment thing some more.
