As a great friend of mine pointed out, you didn't talk your way into this, so you aren't going to talk your way out.
When things happen fast in this current relationship you find yourself in...it usually isn't good.
Slow movement isn't usually detectable. But the seeds for your actions will bring forth growth down the road. A 40 foot old oak doesn't grow over night.
It is hard to tell the difference between stagnation and growth...it is very hard.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK