Don't contact the OM. It won't help, and he is not worth your time.

It's not his responsibility to avoid contact with your w. That is between you and your W.

If you contact him, the worst thing that could happen is that your W and OM end up laughing about together.

Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2
M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08
Walking away from a bad situation.

My Sitch

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