Here is one additional thing you need to know because it worked for me. Monday night I was mad for about an hour. I was fuming. But you know what I did. I started praising God and thanking him for his love and mercy on me, my marriage and my family. Do you think I had any reason to do that? Yes, I did. Because I know he is in control and I have much work to do on my own life and he is allowing me the tools to do that with. And you know what, after I thanked and praised him in the midst of that horrible storm that night, I felt a calm come over me and I felt like I had been given strength to get on track. I called a friend and spoke for a while and I have since been doing what I need to do.

You can do this. But only you can make the decision. Nobody else can do it for you. For far to long I relied on others to make me happy. Nobody can make you happy but you. And know that God is with you and loves you and you are not alone and then be thankful for that.

Now then, let me ask you this. What can you do today to change one thing in your own life to make it better? Just one thing. It doesn't have to be big, infact, start out small. Just pick one thing that would make you happy that has nothing to do with you H.

Kevin
Kevin


Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...