By the way, my neighbors, they've picked sides..the one I went to about helping out, he and his wife loaned my wife they're car. They told or showed my wife every text or email i ever wrote, fortunately not very much. Just stuff like "hey let me know if there is a catastrophe, don't want to know what wife is doing, let wife do things for herself. I've got people telling me all kinds of rumors, don't need to worry about you passing stuff on to her and don't mention that i've asked you this."

Well they did AND I BROUGHT THAT ON MYSELF,just like you guys said I would.

I know who my friends are. It's almost like they're all reveling in it or maybe some of this was planned, I mean this neighbor is the one that helped refinance the house in the matter of 2 wks. And wife got upset when I asked is your motivation for me to pay everything off and refi this house so you can kick me to the kirb. that was before 9/2, that's when we refi'd the house. But can't help to think there was some kind of conspiracy.

Oh well, I'm not responding to it and all thir numbers and email address' are deleted.