Exactly...and I have been trying to make her realize that if she really loves me that we need these things to make our marriage stronger...they used to be there up until now...Maybe its the guilt...but she reassures me its not the guilt cause she has moved on all together from the affair...but I can believe that...espcecially since they have lied 3 times about having no communication with each other...that was 2 weeks ago the 3rd lie floated up and out...so its really hard to believe them right now...They have tried to find different ways to keep it hidden that they were still talking...So who is to say that its not gonna happen again...Im trying so hard to believe her...but its gonna take her a long time for the trust to build back up...and she says she is very understandable of that...
