Hi R2C - I think you hit the nail on the head as far as my turning off my sex appeal. I know for sure that I did that through the years. I started getting/bringing my MOJO back during our last separation period 2 years ago, but started feeling myself slip back into old patterns/habits especially at the beginning of this year. Since the Bomb in May I have taken the initiative to dress sexy, look my best all the time. I can tell he has noticed by little comments and looks now and then, but for the most part, it seems like OW still has the upper hand in that dept, which I know is the way it is going to be right now, but still sucks. I haven't read those two books and will be finding them asap!! I am willing to try anything I can at this point and definitely need help with learning how to flirt and be seductive!!!
Me-34 XH-33 No Kids We were M-12Y T-15Y 5/09 Same house-separate bedrooms 01/10 I filed for D / H moved out 09/16/10 Divorced
