Karen, how serious is the suicidal stuff? That was a HUGE factor in me losing my battle, although in mine, my "suicide letters" were song lyrics I jotted down.
Call your Dr. ASAP and instruct them they are to release those records to NO-ONE without your consent (should be anyways under the H.I.P.P.A. regulations).
And, the flagrent acting out and cussing on the school grounds, been there done that.
Your stbx is showing a lot of dangerous signs my X did to really drag out some dirt, watch yourself!
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11