I will say your sitch does have a strong glimmer of hope. Through your own counceling and jointly, I'm sure all the underlying inssues as to why there was that 'empty' feeling can be drawn out and dealt with. That said, if I had the opportunity you do, I'd look at it this way, now you know what not to do as it slowly killed your OLD relationship between you. And more importantly, what not to let happen in your potential NEW relationship. Point being, once the past is dealt with, look forward to nothing but the future, you know, like we all USED to do.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11
