I suppose I should wonder when she is going to "wake up" to reality, but I really haven't felt the need to care about it.
This is it.......this is "detaching". You are seeing your W as a different person from who she use to be. Now, she is a fruit loop (lol.....love that) and you aren't hung up on how she feels about outcomes. LBH's need to be where you are mentally.....by not sitting around wondering when the WAW is going to wake up b/c until all the money is gone and she has to get out and actually work for her way of life.....she's going to continue in her "play world". She sounds like she is really messed up with going around at night with her sunglasses on her head and getting all dolled up to do housework. It is obvious she is focused on her appearance and trying to look younger. I'm thinking she's in MLC. Bet it was hard to stay composed when you saw her red hair & sunglasses!
You are going good, BJ. I am so proud of you. It is so much harder, I think, to be detached while under the same roof. Anyway, don't cave to her schemes of getting money. She just needs to go to work and live in the real world. She would only spend that money and when it ran out....then she would be coming back to dear BJ for some other avenue for cash. Hope you can stick to your boundaries and not give in to her pressure.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
