I'm curious by your reply - "IF YOU FORCE YOUR WIFE INTO A CORNER IT WILL BE THE WORST MISTAKE YOU WILL MAKE" and "yes it will backfire big time"
What do you foresee that can happen? Today, I have no marriage anyway because she is not actively engaging in it. She is like a stranger to me in my house now.
Me:49 W:49 M:26.5 years S21, S17 Bomb: around 2004 ILYBINILWY EA: 07-2009