Lola, I was checking your other thread every few days, had no idea you started a new one...
Just caught up on everything here, and I can understand your longing for closure, to be done, etc. Just remember that D paperwork has NOTHING to do with that. It's just paperwork. And it sounds like you'll be tied to him with this bankruptcy thing regardless of the D going through. The emotion swings are normal, and I appreciate your honesty in posting about them. That's why I always follow your threads.
Anyway, glad to hear you're doing so well, keep it up. Do the paperwork if you need to, but don't expect it to fix anything. In fact, don't be surprised if it makes you feel worse, not better. Hang in there!
Me: 30 W: 28 T 8, M 6 S: 7-27-2007 W filed (again) 3-2011 Served 8-2011 Responded, now dark "I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK