Sounds like you've been having some good days lately! I believe GOD shows us positive encounters sometimes to keep us standing when we feel like giving up.
Lately for me, when H is sitting in the same room with me I get so uncomfortable that I go find something to do. Last night for example, H was on his computer, with the TV on, in the den. All of a sudden he turned them off, and came to sit with me in the livingroom. I was so afraid he wanted to talk about R, or spew something , that I got up and got ready for bed. I felt bad that I left him sitting out there alone, but then I thought about the nightmare he's put me through. Maybe he had something nice to say, maybe he didn't want to say anything at all, but I wasn't taking any chances.
How do you keep from feeling uncomfortable around H? How do you avoid R talk if he starts to bring it up?
* For anyone who wants to read my thread *
It's called... "Who Is This Stranger Living In My House?" on the Newcomers forum.
I haven't had time to figure out how to move it here yet. Even though I had some good friends giving me good instructions
