I dare to think she has a MLC having 4 kids and being under 40. Why did you file, what was your hurry? she actually went to C with you...even if she stalled now, perhaps she is undecisive...it hurts you, but there could still be hope, let her be, maybe she just needs some time... give her that, what else can you loose? if she istn' going to C, would she go now and then on a casual date with you? give her some space for now.


Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2

30something
2kids
survivor of S, MLC, A, D
I have peace in my heart, at last.