Thanks Sandi. I hope I can help someone. although you and Puppy gave me some very good and pointed advice, some of which I never saw how you got to it but it was correct. For example when I thought my H was giving so much info about his last trip to Ca and I thought he was being good by giving me so much info and Puppy called it right away that he was establishing a good alibi. How do I see through things like that to offer someone reality rather than what they want to hear like I did. A lot of times I wanted to hear what I wanted to hear,not what was really going on. I don't know if I feel confident of giving the good real advice and support. How do I learn that?
I will definately read others and chime in when I feel I can, I am just afraid of saying the wrong thing. You guys are so good and I want to get to where you are.
