that is wonderful T!!! it's a huge learning experience. and for us women, most the time we just want the sympathy. to show you care and that you'll make our day better, not what we should have done or what we can do.
not sure what you used to do when she would vent. glad to see you doing the things that work.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
