cbih,

Thanks for the book recommendations. These books are good too:

--How to Improve your Marriage without Talking about It by Patricia Love and Steven Stosny.
--Keeping the Love You Find by Harville Hendrix.
--The New Rules of Marriage by Terrence Real.
--I Do Again by Cheryl & Jeff Scruggs (this one is very interesting because it tells the story from the perspective of the WAW and LBS)

I've read the Seven Principles for Making Marriage work too. Interesting because it's based on objective research.

Buttercup, it sounds as though you have turned your mental state around from a couple days ago. Good work! I'm going to call you "good attitude buttercup (GAB)". laugh

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