I've been reading Compassionate Marriage based on your recommendation and it's great! A real eye opener in terms of understanding what my W is experiencing. I can see why you said the other spouse doesn't have to read it too. I think it's going to help me to talk to her in a manner that's non-pressuring to her.
Sorry for the hijack DL. Just wanted to thank OT for the good read.
No worries Stuck, I do agree that it is helping me. AND YES both do not have to read it but it would be nice if a couple did do it together. But you and I seem to be doing it ourselves which is ok. It does give us a better understanding what our wives are going though..
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know