So sorry for your situation. As you are the WAW, it might be very helpful to read Light His Fire. You need to begin to show him appreciation, respect, and admiration to show you are sincere. There are other useful books but this one just really seems to hit most of the important points in one small book. There no guarantees but I feel my separation is FAR better off right now due to me learning and applying the lessons in that book (at least the ones you can apply while being separated.)
This forum will also provide you a lot of good information. Welcome back and good luck!
