You can read other people's threads and when you see a situation that you feel you could offer some suggestions.....or you just feel you can identify with that person.....then hit the reply button and start typing. It may the another woman who has been left by her H for OW who really needs some hope offered. Some people need to be enouraged.....or some may be freaking out and need a verbal shaking to get their head on straight. As you know...it is hard to think under that kind of stress, fear & angry. I see you as being a woman who could offer somebody a good shoulder.


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!