Hey Sandi,

I'm doing OK considering my fruit loop of a W. Just trying to limit my contact with her and focus on me and the kids as usual. She stopped wearing her wedding ring three weeks ago. Walking around the house at night with sunglasses perched on her head. Getting all dolled up to do housework while listening to music on her iphone. Yesterday she dyed her hair a reddish tint (she is brunette) to "hide the gray roots". Still not taking the job search as seriously as she should and instead pressing me to refinance the house to get her share of the equity. It just goes on and on. I suppose I should wonder when she is going to "wake up" to reality, but I really haven't felt the need to care about it.

Anyway, I need to run. I was typing this post when my W interrupted me to get into an extended discussion about refinancing the house. Talk to you soon.


M: 41
W: 39
S: 11
S: 10
D: 4
1st contact w/OM: 1/19/09
EA began: 2/14/09
EA discovered: 3/1/09
I file for D 8/25/09 to protect myself
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