Well thanks for asking @JonF. Themselves are doing middling-well. They've slowly got adjusted to the idea of "2 houses," though Boy Child is less adaptive than younger Girl Child. The Boy still lays the "this divorce is STUPID" law down, while The Girl concurs. She's revealing more of her sadness and struggle, which is good because she was bottling it up. But on the other hand they do get genuinely excited about going to their mother's house and seeing her (they spent rather less time with her than with me during the marriage). It certainly could be worse.