I've been reading Compassionate Marriage based on your recommendation and it's great! A real eye opener in terms of understanding what my W is experiencing. I can see why you said the other spouse doesn't have to read it too. I think it's going to help me to talk to her in a manner that's non-pressuring to her.
Sorry for the hijack DL. Just wanted to thank OT for the good read.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.