Thank you for your reply. You were “spot on” when you mentioned that my W would become harder to live with over the next few weeks. Once again, I had to call her out on her poor behavior this past Sunday. She did an immediate “180” and has been nice ever since. She’s definitely trying to be more talkative again. Déjà vu all over again…I pull away and she’s drawn to me. I try not to rock the boat, but I’m at a point where I just don’t put up with B.S anymore.
The last two evenings have been pleasant. I cooked dinner for everyone each of the last two nights (W working late) and have spent a lot of time with the kids reading and doing homework. I caught my W “looking nicely and smilling” at me at least a half dozen times while I was playing with the kids. She’s admitted to me in the past that being a great father is a huge draw for her. I am starting to get a feeling that she really is looking forward to Retrouvaille…no physical evidence but just a gut feeling.
Again Sandi…thank you for your support. I look forward to hearing from you again.
-LFH
ME: 38 W: 35 D2.5 and S5 Married 12 years Separated (same house, different rooms) INILWYAM by W: 4/16/2009 The day W requested a D: 4/17/2009
