Hey Grace...no drinking is not his thing. He had a lot to celebrate and the guy with the hole in one was buying. It's rare he gets like that and I was surprised at the level he got to, but it's almost like truth serum with him. I forgot to mention, after he ate a whole pizza as he sobered up, he did say "I love you....but you're stupid." I took it and said nothing.
That's the first time I've heard I love you since last November.

Well, I haven't flown off the handle in weeks now. So that's not exactly true about when D comes up as of late. Even when I was served, I was very calm. What else was there to do? Even with the issue with the lawyers, I spoke, no yelling. It's def. been a test and many a tribulation lately, but so far, so good.

I actually have been distracted from my R problems....something weird happened at work that should have cost me my job. But my boss, who is sticking his neck out for me, believed me so I am still employed, but I was stressed for sure. And H was very supportive during the last 48 hours.

He's been very snuggly and calling and texting a lot. So, I continue to lay low.

Our plans for our anniversary for this Friday are to go to dinner and maybe a movie. Nothing too crazy or with any pressure. We have a sitter so it should be fun. This morning he sent me an email with his weekend plans and ended it with "So how does all of that sound to you? How's it work with your plans?"

I do like my changes, they've been beneficial to me.


M-34/H-35/S-4
Bomb-11-08
OW confirmed 12-08-OW ends 6-09
D finalized 4-10
Stronger=Happy