BBJ,

I can't stop laughing!!!
i hear what you are saying about intimacy. I am pretty intimate if you know what i mean....... and it was difficult. However, even though you have religious beliefs that are probably more conservative than mine, you should slowly get back to trying to date. Surely you weren't serious about waiting for him to sign the paper...then you will wait for the divorce to be official and then you will wait.....not that there is anything wrong with that!!!!
You waited long enough...do what comes naturally....no God that I would worship would hold you accountable for your actions. Oh wait a minute, I am Roman Catholic are we supposed to fornicate strictly for procreation reasons??? Or have they changed that?

Have some fun (not neccesarilly sex)BBJ, you deserve it!!!