I have read the Sex Starved Marraige..and it did point some things out to me..but also states that the other spouse that is having the low desire needs to do things as well...Well I have had it for over a month now and she told me at first that she would read it now everytime I ask her she says she does not have time to read it...She comes home from work and never has to do anything but be with me and the kids...and most of the time she gets home at the kids bedtime so there is time but 99% of the time she falls asleep with the kids and leaves not much time for me...or for her...The other night I read her a few exerpts out of the book and she looked into my eyes and said wow that really does sound like us...but our situation is not the same as anyones thats in a book...I will read it sometime but I cant say its going to help anything