So just out of wondering...how would you say that they r lying? I mean if you have poninters or advice on that I would love to know...This is the first time and hopefully the last time I ever have to go thru with this...Something else I did not state is that I never have and never will ever have the urge to ever cheat of my W...Its just not something I could ever do...But when I asked her what she would have done if the shoes were on the other foot she said that she would have made me leave and would never work on it because she is not a bigger person like I am...What words...