There is no written custody or visitation agreement. When I put one together, she refused to sign it. We came to an oral agreement since she refused to sign even though it was the exactly the same thing on paper.
Since she has not provided for our S since she moved out, I decided to go the legal route.
Concerning the drugs, I do think she is using. She has been dropping hints. Plus, she has lost a lot of weight very quickly. She does not look healthy at all. She continues to wear the same clothing even though she's lost a lot of weight. Its like she wants everyone to know how bad she looks.
I know that I have the power. I have set some boundaries and she has tried to test them. I just have to get used to her trying to test me. That's why I don't talk to her unless I really have to.
