Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....

[Amy40]

As I recall there's no agreement in place regarding visitation, right?

If she isn't going to buckle the kid in a seatbelt that's called negligence. You don't have to let her take him anywhere if you have reason to doubt his safety.

If she returns him late, and you don't have a written visitation agreement with pick up and drop off times stated, you have to decide whether you can be at the mercy of her whims. If not, get an agreement in writing. When she doesn't adhere to it, you don't have to let him visit.

You are the one with the power.
Not her, but that's NOT what she thinks.

Do you think she's using drugs?

Keep it all business and nothin' but, Drew...